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Liz McCrocklin's avatar

This is a massive unacknowledged problem. I know people in gambling recovery and it has really opened my eyes to the tsunami of issues created by the legalization of sports betting. It’s a whole different beast than going to the casino. It’s constantly accessible, heavily marketed, and highly addictive for adults, let alone for people with developing brains. I spoke to a financial planner recently that works in this area and she said that it used to take people 5-10 years to wipe out their life savings. Now it happens in a matter of months. Thank you for writing about this.

Steven Evangelista's avatar

Look at you, raising an issue that is way outside the mainstream conversation and yet pertinent and important for healthy youth development.

I’ll just share my personal experience to complement your findings that gambling is akin to alcohol use.

It was rampant at my elite public high school, and I didn’t fall into any traps partly because I was raised with normalized low-stakes gambling. We played Italian gambling card games for 25 cents a hand - sette mezza and mazzetta - on holidays. So when the risk and taboo excitement, which ate important parts of adolescence, came up, it was no big deal for me.

This privilege also extended to alcohol - in my family, kids tasting wine and beer, having a glass of wine at the table when you are well underaged, was seen as normal. So when I got to college and saw all the animalistic bacchanalia for kids who finally had access to what they had been dreaming about, I was shocked and horrified.

I’m not sure what the lesson is, just sharing my story to add to the mix of boundaries, control and freedom that addictive substances and habits call for.

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